What is a natural woman? 什么是本色女人？
The definition seems wide and deep. Despite any preconceived notions, natural women are not a mystery. They are women who are comfortable in who and what they are. They can be versatile. They can be 1)driven. They might choose to be a 2)homebody, a factory worker or a model. No matter what they are and do, natural women are always themselves. The most beautiful women always are.
Natural women have an 3)aura about them. They find comfort even in their own 4)insecurities. They don’t have to 5)flaunt “I am who I am.” It flows effortlessly from them. They are not afraid of their emotions. They will even share a laugh with you over their flaws. Natural women form deeply based relationships. They don’t depend on cosmetics, perfumes and fashion. They see them for the most part as accessories instead of necessities.
What’s the difference? 本色女人和做作女人有何不同？
They are subtle. I have held hands with women that really are the farthest from natural as can be. The feel in the touch of a natural women is a world apart. A not so natural woman 6)exploits or 7)forces hand holding. They have to think about it. With a natural woman, it just happens. Almost without thought the hands glide together. It’s not a statement. It is a state of being. The kiss of a natural woman is passionate even in the most incidental of expression. Why? She doesn’t have to think about it. It is an 8)involuntary action that originates from the heart. An unnatural woman will seem to start out that way but it fades away over time. Their actions come from what they want not who they are.
Why are they the most beautiful? 为什么本色女人最美？
Natural women emanate even in their worst of moments “this is me.” They will wake up in the morning and not have to run to the make up table. They glide into the day. Everything is performed with an “I care” aura. The don’t look for glory in what they do and who they are. Yet, their appreciation of recognition is deeper felt and more profoundly expressed.
Who is a natural woman? 谁是本色女人？
She can be anyone because she always is herself. She is a woman not afraid to lead with her heart. She is a woman who, when she cares about you, there is no 9)looking back or over the shoulder. She relates with true lasting emotions. They won’t be swayed. Her feelings are real, 10)worn on her sleeve, and 11)etched in stone. I have met many natural women in my time. I have even met those that pretended to be. Over time the gap widens and the unnatural women are eventually exposed. You may ask, “Can any woman be a natural woman?” The answer is a yes and no that needs a deeper look. Any woman can be a natural woman but few rarely are.
Who are the “unnaturals”? 谁是“做作女人”？
We have all encountered them. These women put on the air of being natural. Yet, instead of wired and push-up 12)bras, make-up and other beauty enhancers being accessories, they are lifelines of necessity. They really are about appearances. Natural women, as I said, do things from the heart. The unnaturals do things out of self-gain and what suits their purposes at the time. They don’t form true relationships; they form alliances that fit the moment. Unnatural women will change emotions and relationships as they see are in their best interests at the time.
13)Beholding a natural woman 遇见一个本色女人
The beauty of a natural woman shines through. To behold one, you have to open up your eyes willingly enough to see the person. When you do you will see natural women are the most beautiful women. You will also see they are all around you.